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~ Welcome to Sensual Magick! ~ We would like to take a moment to welcome these wonderful new consultants to Sensual Magick! Thanks so much for joining our team!!
~ Sex Scope for September: Virgo ~  Virgo strives for perfection in a never-ending quest to reach the top. Whether she wants to become a movie star or he wants to become top dog at the local Wal-Mart, Virgos will do whatever it takes to get there. In matters of love and lovemaking, this overbearing need to be the best can become very problematic. Virgos are hypercritical – both of themselves and those around them. When a good-looking Virgo stares into a mirror he isn't gloating; he's looking for flaws. Teeth? They could be a little bit whiter. Bod? Better pump those weights some more over the weekend. Virgo lives to improve the things around him, so if you happen to be in his field of vision, be ready for a lot of unsolicited advice. Ruled by Mercury, the guy in charge of speed and wit, Virgo's mind is a constant whirlwind of self-doubt, Anthony Robbins-style motivation and shoulds. Scorpio's key word is should also, but while the scorpion is motivated by guilt, as in, “I should help Mom or I'm going to regret it,” Virgo's shoulds are even more insidious. “I should help Mom because it's the right thing to do.” Virgo is constantly bowing to this internal pressure and in certain instances it can lead to a pressure cooker-style situation. If Virgo buys into society's rules, he will never win: I should have a nicer car than the people next door. I should make more money than anyone around me. I should, I should, I should. As tired as you might get reading the same word over and over again, try to realize how Virgo feels. She hears these words every day and no matter how hard she tries to shut them up, they're always there. If Virgo can come to the realization he is only in a competition with himself, he faces a fare more relaxed equation. He'll still be high-strung and he'll probably always second-guess himself, but he's brilliant when it comes to seeing through smoke and mirrors. While Pisces escapes into the world of drugs and Leo thinks the world revolves around him, Virgo is deeply immersed in reality. “If you can't be realistic,” Virgo would say, “then what's the point?” While other signs might pat themselves on the back for a halfhearted attempt, for Virgo it's all or nothing. She's a winner or a loser – there is no in-between. When it comes to sexuality, Virgos aren't service-oriented. In other words, if you're a female looking for a partner who's willing to go down on you for hours, you'd be better off with a Libra or Pisces. It's not that Virgos distain the idea of giving head or anything like that, they don't – but unless they're super-attracted to you or deeply in love, Virgo finds the idea of oral gratification embarrassing and somewhat demeaning. When a Virgo smokes a joint or downs a couple of shots, these rules don't apply, however. Why is that? Because even at sixty years old, Virgo is still kind of embarrassed by the idea of sex. This is the sixth-grade girl who blushed every time the word sex was mentioned and the guy who got so tongue-tied with trying to ask you out that he ended up walking away without saying a word. As earth signs, Virgos love sex – you just need to break 'em in a bit before they'll fully enjoy it. ~ From "Sex Scopes ~ How to Seduce, Stimulate, and Satisfy Any Sign" by Stuart Hazleton ~  Name: Jessie Matthews Location: Sheridan, Wyoming E-Mail: jessie@sensualmagick.com Phone: 1-888-376-0027 Tell us a little about yourself. I am a 29-year-old work-at-home professional. I am married to my wonderful partner, Rayne, and have been with her for 4 years. We celebrated our 2nd wedding anniversary this past September. I am also the proud parent to one Dachshund cross puppy (Hunter) and three junk yard rescue kittens (Ben, Maxine and Lily). We also care for as many as 10 feral cats with 4 regulars who we consider "family." When did you realize that the romance business was for you? Why? Honestly, I didn't even realize that there were people doing romance products at home parties until a couple years ago. The whole idea just blew my mind! It was probably early 2007 when I started looking at seriously pursuing this as a business. At that time I was struggling along with my long-standing gift and collectible business and got a post card from a party supply company. While I wasn't interested in the party supplies, I still filed the post card. (You never know when you'll realize you need something like that!) Several months later I got a sale flyer from the same company that featured a lot of the same type party supplies that were on the initial post card, but as I looked closer I realize that there was much more! This place sold ADULT STUFF too!! I was floored! And, at the same time, my mind started spinning with ideas. I could really make this into something! That night I talked it over with Rayne, and she said "Well, why not? You're really good at this stuff. It would be a perfect fit for you!" So, I started to slowly put a business together and in January of 2008 Sensual Magick opened its doors! Even when things are tough - and as a small business still just starting, things still are tough sometimes - I've never regretted making this move. I cannot imagine being in a better industry! I have never been involved in a business that literally had the capability to change lives, and the romance industry has that capability. I love having the opportunity to work with women on things like body image and self-acceptance. I love getting to teach people not to be ashamed of being sexual beings and helping them to learn to love themselves as the love themselves. I am constantly inspired by the number of people who report that introducing romance products into their life literally saved their marriage. Honestly, I can't think of any other business where these things happen on such a consistent basis. How much time do you spend on your business? I try very hard to keep regular office hours - Tuesday through Saturday, 7 AM to at least 11 AM. Some weeks I end up working Sunday and Monday, too (though I'm trying to break that habit). And some days life things come up and I have to cut work short. One of the great things of working this business is that I can rearrange my schedule to fit life circumstances. For example, last October Rayne was hospitalized after what was just supposed to be a simple doctor's appointment. Had I been working a regular job, I would have had to deal with an annoyed boss because I was missing work (becuase there's just no way I would have been at work when someone I loved was that sick and in the hospital). Thanks to my business, I didn't have that added stress and was able to be at the hospital every day until Rayne came home. What is your favorite Sensual Magick product and why? Oh, boy! I have a LOT of favorites!! Right now, I guess it'd be a toss up between our I Rub My Wormie Massagers and our new Winter Skin Pampering Kit. I love the wormies because it's silicone, making for super easy clean up, it's waterproof, so you can have lots of tub & shower fun with it, and it's this cute little wormie that you can leave sitting out and nobody would ever know it's an adult toy. The Winter Skin Pampering Kit is a favorite because it combines two really great products - our Coochy Shave Creme and Body Dew. You get a BIG 16 oz bottle of Coochy and a full-size bottle of Body Dew in your choice of scent. Putting these two products together in a kit for our customers was a lot of fun for me and a great combination to fight dry, flaky winter skin. It's definately worth checking out! Name one skill that you think is vital to maintaining a successful Sensual Magick business. A big one for me is persistence. People tend to get into direct sales or having their own business thinking that money's going to start falling from the sky while they sit home and watch TV, which just isn't the case. Having your own business takes a lot of WORK to keep going. It takes making yourself get up every day, go to the computer to take care of orders and communicate with customers, sending out ads, promoting locally and finding new ways to get your name out there. The romance industry is one of the most profitable sections of the Direct Sales industry as a whole, but you've still got to put in the work to reap the rewards. Who is the sexiest actor out there?
I'm a long-time fan of Hugh Jackman. As hottie vampire hunter in Van Helsing or bad boy best friend in Someone Like You, he's just awesome. This month, rather than featuring one specific product, we're going to be talking about Holiday 2008! That's right! The dreaded holiday shopping season is upon us! So, rather than spend hours wandering the mall, fighting the crowds and swearing at the guy who just cut you off in the parking lot, why not check out Sensual Magick's selection of delightfully naughty gift ideas! Just for those wanting to add a little humor to their holiday, we have some great Holiday Gift Bags and Gift Wrap! Those looking for the perfect gift to give their partner, look no further! We're featuring some of our very favorite kits for couples and will be adding MANY new gift sets in the coming month! And, finally, we're featuring some of our very favorite lingerie gifts this holiday season! We hope you've enjoyed this Holiday Preview and, remember, we've got even more great holiday gift products on the way, so don't forget to check back! Body Talk Chocolate Tattoos Set The Chocolate "Tattoo" Set includes one 10-ounce jar of Chocolate Body Frosting, 3 provocative stencil sheets, and one paintbrush. The rest is up to your imagination and your appetite... This is one time you will enjoy eating your words! $24.00 I Rub My Wormie Large Green Massager I Rub My Wormie is a waterproof personal massager that was designed for the ultimate rub-down! Its long multi-textured body is hard but covered with ultra-soft skin. There are tiny rounded nodules which run the length of the Wormie's underbelly. Wormie is 7.5 inches long and 2 inches across the widest segment on the body. Dual-speed control is easily operated with one hand to customize the level of vibration. Two C batteries not included supply the robust vibrations. The vibrations are delightfully strong without being overwhelming. Just press the cleverly hidden button and enjoy the strong vibrations running through this sweet-faced Wormie! $50.50 One of the best-selling adult games of all time, Dirty Minds is considered the world's cleanest "dirty" game. Contains four game booklets with 912 clues that lead to 304 squeaky clean answers. For 2 to 6 adult players. $32.25 ~ Sex Scope for October: Libra ~  Libra is one of the sexiest signs in the zodiac. As a cardinal air sign ruled by Venus, Libras are easygoing, quick to take action and ruled by an all-encompassing love of beauty. Beautiful objects, fabulous food and allies who just happen to be easy on the eyes are always within arm's reach of a Libra. This love of the good life can get out of hand if you're saddled with an undisciplined Libra. If she can't get everything she wants from one lover, she'll opt for two, and if he can't make enough money to buy the hot wheels he's hot for, he'll find a way – whether legitimate or not – to get what he wants. Libra is blissfully unaware of this conflict, however. If you sat down with the two Libras I just mentioned and forced them to confront their mistakes, you'd probably just see confusion on their faces. “But I wasn't satisfied!” the cheating female Libra would explain, while the male who found sneaky ways to increase his income would say, “But you can't find Ralph Lauren sheets on sale!” Unless you're facing a mature Libra (and trust me, age is no indicator with Librans), you're in for some tough times. Adding to this confusing mix, Librans hate to cause a scene, so if they think their opinions or actions might cause a ruckus they'll simply neglect to mention them. Libra isn't so stupid to think life is perfect but by pretending it is they get to gloss over so many distracting details. Libras are also notorious for holding their lovers to standards they themselves would never obey. A Libra can look you straight in the eye and say, “Never cheat on me because I'd never do it to you,” even when they have a hot night of sex planned with someone else for that evening. Once indulging in their wickedness, Libra will file away that bit of info in a mental Rolodex under the heading “Never to be Brought Up Again.” Whether you ever discover this ruse depends on how long you last with Libra and whether or not he feels you can handle the information they're keeping contained. Libras don't enjoy things that aren't pretty, so if you're intent on flossing your teeth in front of your mate, opt for a Virgo (who'll probably offer to help). On this note, keep a handle on burps, farts and anything else your body might issue at an inappropriate moment. Libra knows life isn't all about fun, games and beauty, but he would rather not dwell on the fact. If you're a driven type who wants someone to cool you down, Libra is almost the perfect prescription. But keep in mind that you may need a translator if you want to make your relationship last. If you're looking for a fun roll in the hay, realize that Libra is exactly what the doctor ordered. Built strictly as a pleasure model, Libras are happy to give off as much – or even more – than they receive. ~ From "Sex Scopes ~ How to Seduce, Stimulate, and Satisfy Any Sign" by Stuart Hazleton ~ ~ Erotic Tips to Rock Your World - and His! ~ Sure you've been having fun in bed, but have you ever hit that orgasmic point of no return? Here, various sexperts tell how to push great sex into the next realm — supersex.
"In a good sexual relationship, you touch each other all the time — not just in bed. When you talk to your lover, put your hand on his or rub his back for a few minutes. When you're driving, rest your hand on his thigh. When couples touch each other, it's a way of expressing warmth and keeping that 'united' feeling alive. All touching doesn't need to lead to sex, but it is a part of being physically intimate." "As a rule, women take longer to get sexually aroused, so start by yourself before you get into bed. Spend 30 minutes taking a bath with candles and fondling yourself." "Most men like it when a woman takes the initiative. Why not send him an erotic e-mail? In very specific detail, tell him how much you desire him and what you'll do to him the minute he comes home. If you're sending the message to his work computer, make sure no one else can open his email!"
"Most men are visually oriented. You might consider leaving some lights on and asking him to watch while you're performing oral sex or having intercourse or even when you're getting ready to go to bed with him. If you feel self-conscious about your body, do this semiclothed — wear one of his shirts completely unbuttoned; men love it when women borrow their clothes."
"If you want to get your guy off orally, first spend some time stimulating his body from the navel to the knees with your hair. It feels great! Then, focus your warm breath and kisses on the head of his penis and the part that's just beneath. For most men, the sensation is the same as if you had the entire penis in your mouth. Also, make hand play an active part of oral sex — lightly caress his testicles and stroke the shaft of his penis. This helps increase the intensity of whatever you're doing with your mouth." "Freeze some grapes in a Ziploc bag. Once they're ice-cold, put them in your mouth. Then begin oral sex. The temperature and sensation produced by the grapes while you're giving him oral sex is incredible. You might want to try spraying your mouth with Binaca or using mint-flavored toothpaste right before going down on him. This will give his penis a nice warm feeling." "If you don't like the taste of semen at all or want to protect yourself against disease, ask your man to wear a Sheik Elite mint-flavored condom. It has an amazing taste."
"If your partner hasn't pleasured you orally and you'd like him to, have a talk about it. Just say, 'I'd really like it if you'd go down on me, but I haven't seen that happen yet. Could you tell me what's going on?'" "You must believe that men find vaginal secretions to be aphrodisiacal. So stop worrying about vaginal odors and get used to the fact that men get turned on when they have oral sex with a woman." "If you are comfortable, hold your labia open so your man has better access while giving you oral sex. Spreading the labia heightens the sensation, and if he's down there using his hands to hold everything open, they can become cramped and stiff pretty quickly — this way his hands are free to pleasure you in other places."
"When you're manually stimulating a man, try a technique I call Ode to Brian. It may sound complicated at first, but when you get into the rhythm of it, your movements will just flow. Do the following steps, alternating hands: Make a U-shape with your fingers and thumb at the bottom of his shaft and your palm facing away from you. Stroke up, and when you reach the head, twist over the top with as much of your palm in contact with the head of the penis as possible and come down the other side. Then do the same with your other hand and keep on alternating hands — for as long as he can last!" "Another fabulous hand-job technique is one I call the Basket Weave. Use a water-based lubricant, and while sitting in front of him, lace your fingers together and wrap them around his penis. Rather than a simple up-and-down motion, twist as you go up and down, thumbs facing you. You can also add a little pulsing while twisting."
"To help him best delight you with his hands, provide lots of coaching and be patient. One thing a woman can do: Offer valuable feedback without saying a word. Wrap your hand around one of his fingers or his penis, and when he does something you particularly like, give a squeeze, if you're not comfortable actually telling him. This type of nonverbal feedback can be so helpful to a guy who's doing his best to please you." "When your partner is masturbating you, ask him to tug playfully on your pubic hairs. This adds a slight feeling of tension that turns on many women." "Use pillows. Slip one under your hips so that during missionary-position intercourse, there's less opportunity for him to slip out. Plus, when he's performing oral sex on you, his neck won't get so cramped. You can prop up his head and lower back with pillows so he has a better view while you're down between his legs."
"Here's a tip to make yours and his orgasms more intense, plus help each of you last longer before exploding. He has to be aware of what you're going to do. Before either of you orgasm, stop intercourse or touching yourselves directly and switch gears. You might pull away and give each other a massage for a few minutes. Then you can resume. Keep bringing yourselves close to orgasm, building to that peak, so that by the time you do finally climax, your orgasms will be all the more explosive." "Use each piece of furniture for a different sexual act or position. Have sex under the piano, on a chair, and in front of a window. Over the course of a relationship, you will have created sexual memories, which means your home will be a more eroticized environment." "Live in the surprise of the moment — you never know when you're going to feel that special intimacy that is so connected to deep and wonderful sex. You may both be sick and shuffling around, pale and sniffly, but then you give each other a passing kiss, and suddenly, it turns into a soulful kiss, and before you know it, you've got the bathrobes off and you're down on the floor. That moment can't be planned. So when passion hits, go with it — don't let practicalities get in the way."
"A new, soft, manual toothbrush is an incredible sex toy that will provide pleasure for both of you. Ask your man to run the bristles over your breasts and entire body — the sensation is truly erotic. He should brush gently around your vaginal area, especially the opening. Then you can stimulate his body — try focusing on his nipples. Although most men don't say it (and many don't even know it!), the nipples are usually very sensitive — a secret erogenous zone." "Wear a long strand of pearls knotted around your neck — almost every man finds pearls supersexy. Seductively untie and remove them. Gently run the pearls over your man's entire body. Start with his head and face and work your way down to his toes, but avoid his penis, saving it for last. When you finally get there, wrap the pearls around his penis and sort of roll the individual pearls around and press them on his skin. This unique-feeling stimulation is a major turn-on." "Good sex is sex that's always different. To make things interesting, use different products during foreplay. Bring chocolate body paint to bed and apply it all over each other. Use a feather duster to apply honey dust to various body parts, then lick it off."
"Everyone has secret sexual fantasies that they don't reveal even to their partner. Here's one way to share them: Both of you write three fantasies on a piece of paper and number them from 1 to 6. Toss a die and pick whichever number comes up with the promise you'll act it out. He may want you to shave your pubic hair or go to the supermarket wearing nothing but a raincoat. You may want him to have sex with you in the shower or tie you up. You're both on your honor to do whatever!" "Call him — even if he's in the same house — and have great phone sex. The safety of not looking each other in the eye allows both of you to tell each other things you might be embarrassed to say when you're face-to-face. When you get him on the line, tell him how hot you're getting just thinking about his penis. Hearing someone describe how she or he is feeling and reacting is a huge turn-on." "For most guys, lusty talk is a turn-on. You can start off lightly — say, 'I love feeling your tongue there' — and slowly escalate to using four-letter words. If you're wondering how a partner might react to explicit sex talk, ask him. Say, 'Sometimes when we're making love, I just feel like yelling out some dirty words, but I don't know how you'd react.' If you want him to join in, tell him: 'It really turns me on if I hear some down-and-dirty sex talk from you — are you okay with that?'" Find this original article at: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/sex/285740 It's is a GREAT time to become a Sensual Diva! Just like the big romance companies, Sensual Magick offers many fabulous ways to make money, earn promotions, be recognized for your achievements, and have fun!
Why not stop by our company information page for more information?!? ~ Things Your Mother Never Told You ... About Asking for Sex ~ The way you ask for sex should depend on the circumstances. Whether you use a direct approach or a slower subtle approach, your chances of getting what you ask for are much greater if you are respectful. When you ask another person for sex, you are asking them to take a risk. If they say no, it doesn’t necessarily indicate that they don’t like you. There are a multitude of reasons a person may decide against becoming intimately involved. If you accept their decision respectfully and with kindness, you stand a much better chance of getting lucky with them at a later date. After all, you’ve planted the seed and shown that you can be mature, friendly and graceful in the face of adversity, which many people find very sexy. When they say yes, it’s a great idea to discuss what each of you has in mind. This part takes practice, too. Since there are numerous ways to have sex, being on the same page before you start getting hot and heavy can help to prevent the over-stepping of personal boundaries. Communication is the most important key to becoming the amazing lover you were born to be. And to become a successful communicator takes practice, practice, practice. ~ Author Unknown ~ Featured Links Sensual Magick was born of a long standing love for adult products, toys, novelties, and romantic enhancements for couples. My process for selecting new items to offer for sale is very simple - I seek to find those things that I love and would love to share with my partner! I officially decided to leave mainstream employment in 2003 and take the leap into starting my own business. I did flea markets, craft shows, bazaars, rented a booth in a local consignment store, collected hundreds of catalogs and spent thousands of dollars on inventory, tried out eBay and other auction sites and made a real go of things for a while. But, in the fall of 2004 I met the man I was meant to spend the rest of my life with, and things got sidetracked for a good year while we settled in to a new apartment together, got engaged, started wedding planning, and got financially back on our feet enough to get back on the Internet. I'm happy to report that we were married in September of 2006 and have finally moved out of our old apartment and into our new home!! It wasn't until the summer of 2006 that I began piecing my business back together, building new web pages, and thinking about what I really wanted to do. One of those projects was to finally take the plunge into the adult product industry. And, as luck and fate would have it, I found the solution to this answer in the form of a post card in the mail from a company which sold bachelorette party supplies, college drinking games, and – I was delighted to discover – much, much more! In October of 2008 I was finally able to realize another long-standing dream – to include other small business people to join me in my business adventure! I am so honored that you are one of those wonderful people who have decided to join my team!! Sincerely, |
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Mary Juzkiw, Sept 6
